LAKE FOREST, Calif. — The Southern California church headed by popular evangelical Pastor Rick Warren announced Saturday that Warren’s 27-year-old son has committed suicide.
Warren’s Saddleback Valley Community Church said in a statement that Matthew Warren had struggled with mental illness and deep depression throughout his life.
Please, please may this news bring greater discernment in how we treat those with mental health struggles in Christian faith communities.
May the talk of automatic hellfire for suicide victims cease.
May the blaming of the victims who take their lives cease. May the judging of their moral strength or depth of faith cease.
May the poisonous theology of the prosperity gospel cease to be a driving force of Christianity. May we stop equating happiness, wealth, and worldly success with evidence of God’s favor.
May we stop equating deep sadness, despair, and strong emotional outbursts with demonic spirits.
May expressed emotion, tears, and vulnerability not be dismissed as “womanly” or “unmanly,” but honored as human traits.
May those who cry “My God, why have you abandoned me?” be recognized for who they are: The Christ in our midst, begging to be taken from the cross of mental anguish and anointed with soothing balms of compassion and understanding.